Spirit Spouses (Incubus & Succubus): Biblical Deliverance
Are you facing sexual dreams, relationship sabotage, or night visitations? Learn what spirit spouses are and how Jesus Christ sets captives free—step by step.
Are you experiencing unexplained sexual dreams, relationship sabotage, or spiritual oppression?
You’re not alone, and there is biblical hope for complete freedom.
The Hidden Crisis Affecting Millions
Sarah, 28, couldn’t understand why every relationship ended in disaster.
Despite being a committed Christian, she experienced vivid sexual dreams with the same mysterious figure night after night.
Her prayer life felt blocked, and she struggled with compulsive behaviors she couldn’t control.
Marcus, 35, married for eight years, found himself increasingly distant from his wife after recurring “visitations” that felt more real than dreams.
His marriage was crumbling, and he carried shame he couldn’t explain to anyone—not even his pastor.
If these scenarios sound familiar, you may be dealing with what pastoral counselors call “spirit spouses”—
Demonic entities that create counterfeit covenants to steal, kill, and destroy God’s design for intimacy and relationships.
What Are Spirit Spouses? (Understanding the Enemy)
The Biblical Foundation
While terms like “incubus” (male spirit) and “succubus” (female spirit) come from medieval language, the Bible clearly addresses:
- Unclean spirits that defile and torment (Mark 1:23-27)
- Sexual immorality as a spiritual battleground (1 Corinthians 6:18-20)
- Counterfeit covenants that enslave God’s people (2 Corinthians 11:3-4)
- Demonic oppression through open doors of sin (Ephesians 4:27)
“For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12, NKJV)
Modern Manifestations
Spirit spouses operate through:
- Sexual dreams and night visitations that feel supernaturally real
- Relationship interference blocking or destroying godly marriages
- Compulsive sexual behaviors that resist normal self-control
- Spiritual oppression creating distance from God
- Emotional manipulation through jealousy, control, and possessiveness
Problem #1
Recognizing the Signs: 15 Key Indicators of Spirit Spouses
Use these indicators to discern patterns that often accompany spirit spouses. If several apply, seek prayer, repentance, and biblical deliverance.
Sexual & Dream-Related Signs
- Recurring sexual dreams with the same entity or person
- Night visitations with physical sensations while asleep
- Sleep paralysis accompanied by sexual pressure or dread
- “Wedding” dreams including rings, vows, or ceremonies
- Wet dreams or nocturnal emissions with oppression afterward
Relationship & Emotional Signs
- Persistent relationship failure without clear natural causes
- Sudden disgust toward your spouse during intimate moments
- Extreme jealousy when pursuing godly relationships
- Sabotage of marriage prospects through unexplained circumstances
- Isolation from healthy relationships with increasing social withdrawal
Spiritual & Physical Signs of Spirit Spouses
- Spiritual dryness after compromise; prayer feels “blocked”
- Compulsive behaviors (pornography, masturbation) that resist change
- Sexual health issues without medical explanation
- Fatigue and depression, particularly after spiritual encounters
- Strong resistance to deliverance ministry or spiritual authority
Problem #2: Identifying the Open Doors
Understanding how these entities gain legal access is crucial for lasting freedom.
Primary Entry Points
- Sexual Sin and Compromise
- Pornography addiction creating spiritual bondage
- Fornication or adultery opening doors to unclean spirits
- Homosexual activity contrary to God’s design (Romans 1:26-27)
- Perverse sexual practices including BDSM, group encounters
- Sexual abuse or rape creating trauma-based strongholds
“Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.” (1 Corinthians 6:18, NKJV)
- Occult and Witchcraft Involvement
- Witchcraft practices including spells, divination, séances
- Tarot cards, ouija boards, crystals for spiritual guidance
- New Age meditation opening to “spirit guides”
- Ancestral curses from family occult involvement
- Horror movies and music glorifying darkness and sexuality
“There shall not be found among you anyone who… practices witchcraft, or a soothsayer, or one who interprets omens, or a sorcerer, or one who conjures spells…” (Deuteronomy 18:10-11, NKJV)
- Ungodly Soul Ties and Covenants
- Blood pacts or rituals made in relationships
- Jewelry or gifts from ungodly relationships (especially rings)
- Vows or promises made outside of God’s will
- Emotional dependencies that replace God’s provision
- Trauma bonds with abusive partners
- Generational and Environmental Factors
- Family history of sexual sin or occult practices
- Cursed objects in the home (artifacts, books, jewelry)
- Defiled living spaces where sin occurred regularly
- Broken covenant marriages creating spiritual confusion
- Religious spirits masquerading as spiritual experiences
Solution Framework
The FREEDOM Method
Seven biblical actions that move you from oppression to lasting freedom in Christ.
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F
Face the Reality (Acknowledgment)
Stop attributing everything to “natural” causes. Acknowledge you’re in spiritual warfare and need divine intervention.
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Repent Completely (Confession & Turning)
Go beyond surface repentance—confess every open door specifically and turn from it.
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E
Engage in Spiritual Warfare (Active Resistance)
Use your authority in Jesus’ name to command unclean spirits to leave.
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E
Eliminate Access Points (Practical Steps)
Remove objects, break ties, and close every door that gave legal access.
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D
Declare Your Freedom (Proclamation)
Speak your deliverance aloud and establish new patterns aligned with God’s Word.
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O
Obtain Ongoing Protection (Maintenance)
Adopt daily practices—prayer, Scripture, worship—that keep doors shut.
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M
Maintain Accountability (Community)
Walk with mature believers who can encourage, correct, and support your freedom journey.
How-To
Step-by-Step Deliverance Process
A clear, biblical path from assessment to long-term freedom. Adjust pacing as needed; involve a mature believer when possible.
Preparation (Days 1–3)
Day 1: Honest Assessment
- Journal every manifestation you’ve experienced
- List all potential open doors from your past
- Identify objects or ties that need to be addressed
- Set aside 3–7 days for focused prayer and fasting
Day 2: Clean House
- Remove defiled objects (Acts 19:19, NKJV)
- Cleanse your bedroom with prayer and anointing oil
- Delete pornography and inappropriate media
- Change bedding and clothes associated with encounters
Day 3: Prepare Spiritually
- Begin fasting (partial if needed)
- Confess sins specifically to God
- Read Psalm 51 and pray for a clean heart
- Gather Scripture weapons for spiritual battle
Deliverance Session (Day 4)
Opening Prayer & Protection
Heavenly Father, I come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. I put on the full armor of God (Eph. 6:10–18) and cover myself, my family, and this place with the blood of Jesus. I bind every demon assigned against me and loose the power of the Holy Spirit. I invite Jesus Christ to be Lord of this session. Amen.
Detailed Repentance Prayer
- Confess specifically (e.g., pornography, sexual sin, occult practices)
- Acknowledge giving unclean spirits access through these doors
- Honor your body as God’s temple
- Ask for complete forgiveness and cleansing; choose to fully turn away
Breaking Covenants & Agreements
In the name of Jesus Christ, I renounce and break every covenant with spirit spouses (incubus/succubus), all dream marriages, rings, vows, and spiritual contracts. I break every ungodly soul tie with [name specific people], and nullify all agreements made consciously or unconsciously. I break every curse, hex, spell, or assignment against my sexuality, and sever all generational curses affecting my family line. I declare these null and void by the blood of Jesus!
Commanding Demons to Leave
In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I command every spirit spouse, incubus, and succubus to leave now. All spirits of lust, perversion, and sexual torment—go! Every demon of isolation, depression, and relationship destruction—leave! All familiar and monitoring spirits—depart! Any unclean spirit operating in my life—I cast you out. You have no legal right to remain. Go where the Lord Jesus sends you and never return to me or my family.
Sealing & Filling Prayer
Holy Spirit, fill every place these demons occupied. Fill my mind with pure thoughts, my heart with Your love, and my body with Your holiness. I seal my sexuality unto the Lord and dedicate my future marriage to Your glory. Guard my dreams and protect my sleep. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.
Establishing Freedom (Days 5–21)
Daily Victory Routine
Morning declaration: “I am free in Christ Jesus. My body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. I choose purity today and reject all unclean thoughts and desires. I put on the armor of God and walk in victory.”
Evening Protection
- Pray over your bedroom before sleep
- Read Psalm 91 aloud
- Anoint doorposts with oil if needed
- Play soft worship music
Weekly Practices
- Fast one day per week for the first month
- Memorize key Scriptures (see list below)
- Meet weekly with an accountability partner
- Attend church and prayer meetings regularly
Long-Term Maintenance
Essential Scriptures to Memorize
- Psalm 119:9 — “How can a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed according to Your word.”
- 1 Corinthians 10:13 — God provides a way of escape
- James 4:7 — “Submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee.”
- 2 Corinthians 10:5 — Take every thought captive
- Ephesians 6:11 — Stand against the wiles of the devil
Building Protective Barriers
- Daily Bible reading and prayer (non-negotiable)
- Weekly fellowship with mature believers
- Monthly fasting for spiritual strength
- Immediate confession when you stumble
- Professional counseling for trauma issues
Advanced Warfare Strategies
When Resistance Intensifies
Some individuals face stronger demonic resistance, especially if:
- Multiple generations were involved in occult
- Severe sexual trauma occurred
- Deep involvement in witchcraft
- Ritual abuse or satanic involvement
Escalated Response Protocol
- Extended fasting (3-7 days with pastoral supervision)
- Corporate prayer with deliverance team
- Generational curse breaking for family lines
- Inner healing ministry for trauma wounds
- Ongoing discipleship with spiritual authority
Protecting Your Marriage and Future Relationships
For Singles
- Pray for your future spouse daily
- Maintain sexual purity completely
- Guard your mind through media choices
- Build healthy friendships with same-sex believers
- Develop spiritual maturity before pursuing marriage
for Married Couples
- Pray together against spiritual attacks
- Maintain intimacy within marriage only
- Communication about spiritual warfare
- Joint fasting when under attack
- Professional counseling if needed
Final Encouragement: Your Victory Is Secure
Jesus Christ has already defeated every demon. Your freedom rests on His finished work at the cross—not your strength.
“He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.”
As you walk in obedience and maintain your relationship with Him, you can live in complete victory. Many believers have walked this path and now enjoy healthy marriages, pure minds, and powerful ministries. Your testimony of freedom will become a weapon to help others break their chains.
“Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed.”
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